Friends breakups

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Just to type down my thoughts and feelings and experiences.

I have come across lately alot of my friends from high school thats been out of their long term relationships and starting again! you all can do it. Healing time.

You deserve better than those who don't value you. 

Its great to see that they got out of it faster than later on gets more harder. I hope you all are doing well. Learning to put yourself first and love your self during hard times like these you dont yourself a massive favour and great job for doing so. I hope you will see the opportunities that lies ahead for you.

I took 10 years to move on from my first love to accept new people in my life and it has changed my life.  I was stuck and stubbon onto high school life and friends. I thought we would stay connected but some has already has a new life etc. I didn't finally move on and accept new people in my life until i was 25. I met some great people and some not so great. I have been through some self doubts and self confidence. I didn't think i would be right for anyone especially when i dont do much but stay home and enjoy myself with music and photos. 

I'm glad i accepted change and here i am 3 years into a relationship where i sent out dozens of break up text but he won't take them seriously. I don't what going on but i felt like being single and not need to communicate to anyone but here we are. I am stuck and i have felt the urge to sent another one this month but i held back. IDK if i break up with him wouldnt change much. We been through alot but idk my mind keeps telling myself to leave. I appreicate him and everything. I just don't know about further like marriage. Its gonna be a whole another conversation with him about it. I want to be with him but thinking further idk. 

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